I haven't logged into my account for ages, and now it's gone... Why?

Here at Mybabybe we believe in keeping the user list "fresh & active", which means that if a users account hasn't been logged into for 6 months our system automatically removes that account. This won't happen without warning though, our system will send you an e-mail around the inactive 5 month mark warning you of the deletion. To prevent your account being deleted simply re-visit often and log in.

The reason why we do this is because we are a meeting place, somewhere where people want to contact other people, there really isn't much point in having tons of inactive profiles. Yes, it would make the website seem bigger but thats not what we are about.

Can I upload my "Naughty Pictures"?

No sorry. Any images of this nature will be removed without warning. This is not down to us, because we are a free site we cannot risk losing any sponsorship from other companies.

I have received an e-mail saying that I have a message in my MyBabyBe Inbox, but it isn't there... Why?

There are two reasons why this may happen. Firstly, the user may of cancelled their account. Secondly, either we have or the system has deleted the users account... This could be because they have spammed the website, carried out commercial advertising for other websites/businesses, been abusive, or tried to scam someone. Unfortunately we cannot stop the e-mail once it has been sent.

Can I block unwanted users?

Yes, if you look at the offending persons profile there is a option to block all contact from that person.

Someone is harassing me, what can I do?

First of all block them... If that fails then tell us! In every profile there is a report user tab. Use this to contact us, please tell us what the person has been doing and when. We will look fully into the situation, we operate a 3 strikes policy, which means 3 warnings and then a ban. However, this policy can be overruled if it is considered necessary.

I have received spam from another user, what can I do?

Again we need to know. When you open the mail there is a tab which allows you to report spam, when reporting spam please copy & paste the message left by the user into the report box. Your report will be noted & after 2 more reports from other users the offending users account will be suspended/deleted. Any users sending scam messages, or messages to people asking for money will be immediately banned!

Can I advertise on MyBabyBe?

If you would like to advertise on MyBabyBe please contact us: Feedback

Please do not put any advertising in your profile, or spam any part of the website (Including our members). This will lead to warnings, or immediate ban from the website. We do not allow commercial advertising in users profiles.

Can I put my e-mail address in my profile?

No! Our system will remove any e-mail addresses automatically from e-mails sent & profiles. Repeat offenders who put any e-mail addresses in their profiles will receive warnings, or be banned.

How do I change my email address or password?

You can change your email address on the "edit your profile" page. Here you can change some other information including search preferences, address and other preferences about your daily routines, habits, hobbies etc.

After you've made your changes, click "Save" at the bottom of the page to save.

What is the purpose behind Instant Messenger, how do I get benefit from it?

This application is a faster way of communicating to other members of the site who are online. You can add users to your friends list, and when they are online their username will show up in green letters. When you send a message, the recipient will receive it and can reply. If unfortunately recipient doesn't receive message for some reason, then that message will be sent to his/her instant messenger onsite message inbox. For you to be able to communicate with the instant messenger it first needs to be started, you can do this by clicking the "Instant Messenger" tab on the homepage. You need to leave the instant messenger running, it can be minimized but if you shut it down all messages will go in your IM inbox. The instant messenger works similar to the MSN messenger that everyone is familiar with. However, on our site the MyBabyBe instant messenger works as a pop up, so please disable all pop up blockers on your PC for our site.

How does "Match Me Up!" work?

Match Me Up works according to the basic profile and "search preferences" at the bottom of your "edit profile" page. Only if you have filled out all of these details correctly will this function be effective.

Do people actually meet on your site? Do they ever get married/partnered?

Lots of people meet on our site daily and go on to date and start relationships. We are waiting to hear any reports of our first matchmaking wedding, any new details of such events will be posted on the frontpage.

When someone emails me, where does the email go and how do I respond?

When a member sends you a message, it goes straight into your onsite message Inbox. We then send an email to your personal email address to let you know that it's there.

To read the message, simply login to the site and go to your Inbox. If you decide to write back, simply click "reply", write your own message and send away. Your message will go straight into the member's onsite Inbox, and we'll let them know it's there with an email to their personal email address.

All communications with other members stay onsite so that you never have to give out any personal information until you feel completely ready. Then when you are, you can exchange phone numbers and even meet in person.

How do I edit my profile? How do I hide my profile?

To update your profile, click "Edit Profile" in Members Settings menu after logging into the site. Be sure to save your changes at the bottom of the screen when you're done.

Try to put your best foot forward with at least one photo and snappy, detailed descriptions about your interests. The photo is key since most people feel more comfortable writing to members they can see. Try to stay positive in your descriptions and let the real you shine.

To hide your profile, select "No" for the option "Other members can see when I'm online?" on the "Edit Profile" page. Keep in mind, however, that members who are most active on the site keep their profile visible in all places because it ups their chances of connecting with people. And you never know, someone special may be looking for you and never get to find you if your profile is hidden.

Can I cancel my account?

Of course, if you feel the need to cancel your account there is a option on the main login page. In the "Member Settings Panel" on the right side of the page, there is a "Cancel Membership" link there.

Please note this is a permanent delete, all information / photos / mail and contacts will be lost.

We hope that you don't feel the need to use this option as we value every member of our community... For any problems, please contact us first.